God is very loving and forgiving. Even the most heinous of immorality can be forgiven in the Sacrament of Reconciliation, assuming there is a firm intention of change. Redemption can take place anytime throughout our lives and after we are redeemed and dedicate our lives to Christ, maybe then we may hear God calling us.

While God forgives our sins, our sinful choices may not so easily be dealt with. Certain sinful activities might have resulting circumstances that may make becoming a priest difficult, if not impossible. If you have children under 18, you will need to provide for them and would not be accepted. If you are imprisoned, you cannot be accepted. Certain crimes will automatically disqualify you. If you were sexually active, you will need to be celibate 2 years before being accepted. However, if you were involved in homosexual activity, you will need to demonstrate the conversion from this 'lifestyle' and your freedom to live celibately. If the homosexuality is 'deep-seated', you may not be qualified under a recent statement of the Church.

Your best plan would be to visit with a vocation director in person and see what he thinks. When we enter formation and work towards ordination we assume the roles of living a celibate lifestyle and living a moral life with our God.

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